Does my boyfriend really loves me or just doing timepass??????? PLZ HELP...

[sneha]

Hi..i am 17 year old girl. i was having boyfriend who lives nearby my house, but from his friends i came to know that he is just doing timepass with me, so i brokeup with him. the relationship just lasted for 2 months. also one of my tution friend has has given me love greeting to show his love towards me, but since i was already having boyfriend i didnt pay notice to him. but one day he cut his arm to show his love towards me(he already knows that i am having boyfriend). so i thaught he loves me a lot, therefore i accepted him as a boyfriend,. but now i have doubt whether he really loves me or doing just timepass so that he can have sex with me. i am really confused what to do. already my first boyfriend has broken my heart. i dont want to suffer again......please suggest me what to do....

[devonbrown]

Have you thought about talking to him and just going on dates? There is no need to be in a committed relationship unless you are sure of things.

p.s. - Someone cutting themself to impress you is not love for you, it is instability. I would avoid that.

Good luck.

[Wakeup]

It's impossible to give any accurate type answer with the little information you have provided. We cannot tell you if he is using you for sex unless you tell us what your relationship is like, how often he sees you, if he calls you only when he wants sex, that kind of thing.

The only advice that would (IMO) be accurate is that a guy cutting himself to "prove" his love has mental issues and you should be very wary of or avoid someone like that all together.

[sneha]

me and my boyfriend are studying in different college but we are together in same tution classes. we meet daily in tution class.

[Wakeup]

So why would that make you think that he only wanted to have sex with you?

Do you not have dates outside of your class? How well do you even know him?

He cut himself to prove something to you.. People right in the mind don't do that. Why bother with him at all if all you do is meet in a class and nothing more (if in fact that's what you do)

[sneha]

but how can i know that he really loves me. most of the teenagers just want to have sex. may be he is one of them.

[Wakeup]

If you don't have sex with him then you'll know 100% that he's not using you for sex. So, don't screw the guy until he's shown you in actions that he values you for more than what you own between your legs. It's that simple.

P.S. and stated for the third time. He cut himself to prove something .. IT'S VERY LIKELY HE'S NOT RIGHT IN THE HEAD SO JUST DON'T GO OUT WITH HIM.

[sneha]

thanx dear...i think i shloud avoid him and concentrate on my studies.

[jb1111983]

Just don't have sex with him and see if he sticks around. Then you'll know if he really loves you or just wants to sleep with you. His cutting his wrist to prove his love for you may have been influenced by bollywood movies lol.