Me and my boyfriend have been together a couple of years and for about a year of that we have been living together.
When we first got together (and me in general) we were always having sex. Im a very sexual person I love pleasing my boyfriend - in other words there was never any shortage.
Since living together however, this has changed dramatically - on my end.
I especially for the past 6 months I have completely gone off sex with him. I find myself thinking about it with other people but when it comes down to it with him I feel like im forcing myself to do it.
Also when we have sex, he will come really REALLY fast and thats also a factor of why I almost just don't see the point. Recently aswell, because we havent been having sex as much its gotten worse but i feel like its a vicious circle really.
I dont know whethwe I've gone off it because of where we're living or how we're so confined or whether our relationship has just run its course.
I used to think that a relationship would be okay without amazing sex but.. I'm starting to think otherwise.
Sometimes I just wish I could have one night of amazing sex thatd be nice.