Originally Posted by
Balance11
There was something else which i havent mentioned that happened acouple of months back,
we were both out drinking, i was meant to go with my friends but she texted me asking me to go to the bar she was at, i did, spent awhile in there, she was complementing me, talking, having a good time, she started dancing on the bar (she works there, so she can) kept looking at me when she was dancing, we walked to another bar with her friends, i left them there and finally went to my friends, she kept texting me to go to the bar she was at, eventually i did go back. Spent rest of the night with her, we got a cab and she asked we going to yours or mine ? I said her's, went to hers drank some more, watch abit of this film we joke about in texts then went to bed played fight abit in her bed, bit of cuddling, no sex or sexual stuff. Dont think we kissed, cant fully remember.This happened a week or 2 before i asked her if she wanted to meet up.
That above along with the fact she went out that time when i asked and was excited to go out, and the fact we had a good time, gave me the impression (at the time that is not so much now) that she liked me. Which is why i dont get why it was such a big shock for her to find out i liked her and that she would just stop talking to me.She used to come to my work place alot as well, see me for abit, talk and stuff then she'd go home but as you can guess not recently.
Should have been mentioned earlier, but that is why i'm even bothering to ask for advice, had none of that occurred i would have just moved on by now.