haha back in high school it was different
now i just generally dont believe in opposite sex platonic friendships
there's always some sort of sexual tension
well, think about it like this
i wouldnt make friends with anyone i didnt like in the first place
and even when you're just making friends, attraction comes to play at some level
if you're able to connect on a emotional level with someone of the opposite sex you are attracted to
something non-platonic will develop
it could be one-sided
and most often supressed
because you know the two of you'd be better friends than anything else
i didnt realize it until i started dating in college
but after i realized it, i can't seem to ignore it
the only close female friends i have that i never ventured out of the platonic is ones who are already in commited relationships
a midnight call/text from a female friend who wants to talk/hang out/watch a movie is never without an underlying desire
most of the time nothing develops, but you can still feel the tension