Wait the three weeks and then say: "Thanks for the opportunity but I've met someone and she's wonderful, have a good life as I think it's best we don't complicate my new relationship by speaking and her getting the wrong idea about us. Goodbye and good luck in your future." Then never ever contact her or allow her to contact you again.
She's a cow who reeled you back in just to throw yo back in the water and make you swim through all the stages of grief once again. You deserve better than her and if you allow yourself to forget her completely, you close the door to her and a new door will open up to someone who actually knows what she wants and will appreciate you for the fine guy you are.
Take her down off that pedestal you have her on. She doesn't deserve the hype or the emotion you waste on her.
would it make a difference if i told her i loved her ?..
not if she doesn't love you back. If she doesn't love you back telling her that will just make her pity you.
Don't settle to be someone's half-assed "friend" when you want to be their romantic partner. All that does is stagnate you from moving on and finding someone who will love you back in a romantic sense because you can't open yourself up to anyone new the way you can when you're mind is free. You're foolish if you remain in her life. Don't fear be abandoned by someone who has done to you what she has done. It reeks of codependency, desperation and it's unattractive.
Take back your personal power and tell her to hit the road and quit fking with guys emotions.
Last edited by Wakeup; 16-06-11 at 11:10 PM.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion