when my bf and i first started dating he asked me how many partners i had and i said 4 and he was hesitating to continue with the relationship because he was a virgin and thought that 4 partner was too much. i feel terrible about it sometimes but am getting over it slowly.
i met this girl in college that was older than i am and she only had 1 partner i was a bit jealous and felt bad about all the partners i had an wished that i waited instead of having sex with these guys that i no longer care about.
i also know this girl who is age 20 and she have more than 50 partners i don't speak to her anymore so i don't know the exact number but she still manages to get a boyfriend (not sure if she tells the truth tho).
i would like to know how much is too much for you?