i dont really go by the after how many dates rule. cuz normaly i find myself not going on date, i dont consider hangin out 1st time talking with someone a date. if i really like somone i try and wait a month. ive done that 2 times already and its really mad both of us want each other way more i think. there been some ill sleep with right away and i always am aware they are not really want im looking for, just expandable people good for nothing as harsh as that sound. I know when i really like somone and i wont wanna pressure them into sleeping.
my current g/f we havent really went on a true date yes and we been seeing each other 3 months. we do things and go place alone and what not but nothing as that was a true date. i guess im just more into the how much time ya spend with somone more so then calling it a date every time you see somone.