Originally Posted by
missquinn86
he has only contacted her once since he left three weeks ago and thats when he told her that he didnt wish to continue with her..
Then why did he say "I love you and I miss you" to her? Something doesn't add up. He said he "wanted to end it with her when he met you." So how long did he keep the two of you at the same time?
Anyway: By all the excuses you give for his behaviour it sounds like you want us to tell you to go ahead and forget the emails and the "I love you and I miss you" (odd way to say goodbye to someone)... and just go on and enjoy your relationship with him.. so, go on and enjoy your relationship with him, but while you're doing it you better trust him because he'll be away a lot as long as he's in the army and there is a place where soldiers need to be.
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