I have a question for girls. In your opinion, why is it so hard now a days for a "hopeless romantic" guy to find someone? Why do girls leave a nice guy hurting and fall head over heals for guys that treat them like crap??? And also....why is it so hard for a girl with a bad and hurtful past commit to a man that treats them with love and respect? Does it really benifit to be a nice guy in todays society?