confused :(

[sammiegurl]

so i been working with my co worker for bout 2 years. he had a gf for bout a year in that time and recently they broke up. prolly bout a couple months ago. but anyway, i guess ive started to grow more attached to him recently by the conversations we have had and whatnot. and one of the things he had said to me was that i would get along pretty well with his bandmates because im into comics and the beatles....

now, im a shy person and i didnt respond.....i feek bad but i dont know if that was spose to be a hint?

i just feel bad cuz im growing frustrated and i dont have the balls to speak up....and ai part of me wants to give up but at the same time, he would be right for me and i dont wanna give up. im starting to get kinda sad at work, being around him is gettin difficult cuz i cant get the courage cuz im afraid of rejection.....last time i worked with him he kept volunteering to work at the other part of the store...so im not sure if i should give up we have a lot in common, i feel like i could talk to him for hours.... sighs.....did i blow it by not saying "yes, can i have ur bandmates phonenumbers and not urs?" (sarcasm).....

[Bonfire]

Sounds like you have quite a crush on him. Just invite him to go hang out as friends. My co-workers and I, we hang out all the time. I honestly don't think he is thinking of you in that way since he just got out of a relationship. But give it some time, perhaps maybe it'll spark some interest in him.

[sammiegurl]

ill try....im not good with people, especially guys. ive got a bad history and i get afraid....just like i am now. im now starting to avoid him cuz im hoping ill get over it soon....if anything, id really be happier if i could get over it. i wasnt prepared for this nor was i in the mood lol...it just snuck up on me while we were talkin and i felt that chemistry. but latley it seems like he doesnt wanna be around me. he stopped saying goodnight to me or stopping by as much...and i think im pushing him away.. no opportunity to ask.....so id really like to get over it quick, he dserves a great girl because he is a great guy.....he really is.

[Deeza07]

Ummm sweetie, I'm willing to bet you are that great girl - how would you ever know if you don't ask him? We are all great people in our own way....you seem like you're not the confident type, I think you need to believe more in yourself and say "Hey, I am worth that great guy" and go out and get him. Even if you just develop a friendship first...go out for coffee or a walk or something...

[sammiegurl]

ty yea my confidence has been diminished a long time ago. ive put myself out there for a lot of guys and things have not worked out....i get afraid of them, no matter how nice they are. even to ask to hang out for a short bit will take a lot from me.....id like a friendship first....i dont wanna rush into anything serious.....it just sux cuz i feel like ive done something wrong cuz he really did not seem like he wanted to work with me the other day....when there was down time, he was all over with helping another part of the store, normally we would talk or just sit back or whatever.....and hes been asking to go home early latley....i think i messed up. donno where but i think i lost my chance.

[oldskool83]

why dont ya just ask for his number so ya can keep in touch. then text him if that makes ya feel better.