Did I push away my ex or I'm I just hopeful?

[Wakeup]

...All your posts on this forum make you sound so bitter, but I acknowledge your advice. Thank you

I know, dear. The mirror I hold up is sometimes hard to look into. However; when you dare to take a long look that's when you'll "get it" and be able to move on.

Codependent people don't appreciate hearing things they don't want to hear. It scares them. I'm sorry i scared you but I'm not sorry about giving the advice.

[IncognitoSir]

wakeup is right, you've both been consistently inconsistent with each other.......that's not good for any type of relationship. The guy tried to talk to you for a year, and you rejected him the entire year, he's guard is ALL the way up and it should be. I can't see you guys having a healthy relationship of any kind.