plz help me out of this shit mood...

[confusedhead]

I have been with my bf for around 7 months till now. The same as most of the love stories, I thought I met a nice and interesting guy at the very beginning. However, the situation changed after the first couple of months. it seems he changed into another person which I am not familiar with. When I talked with him about my feelings, he said:'' if you do not like it just **** off!" He had thrown many even worse n rude words to me since then now. However, I had already fallen for this guy at that moment. No matter what he wants from me what bad words/attitudes he threw to me, I still did not want to give him up. Luckily, he treat me better n better gradually cause he thinks I am a good girl.He even told me he thought no girls would like him like me.

We had lived together most of the time. I just went back my home 4-5 days per month. When I went back to my country for holiday or when he did so, we still contacted each other everyday, telling what we did everyday and where we were. However, now after I found a new job which I have to work in the evening 5 days per week, which means I have to live at my own place as it is so late after I finish my work. Since then on, he just stopped contacting me, which he used to do everyday. When I msged him, he replied. But just refused to see me and do not talk to me at all, except I contact him. I thought he is being unhappy with my new job which prevents me from spending time with him at the very beginning, but after a conversation through messages I realized I was wrong. He just really didnt miss me at all as he told me so and refused to meet me or did not reply my msg at all. I saw him online after work the whole nights, but just refused to see me.

I am so confused now. I m really into this guy and I do not wanna give him up. Could you give me some advices please?

Many thanks.

[devonbrown]

I am sorry, but he has made it clear that he doesn't want to see you so there is not much you can do except accept it and move on. Find new dating partners, concentrate on your own happiness, and forget about this guy.

Good luck.

[Wakeup]

if you do not like it just **** off!"

Be grateful he's gone. Why would you put up with such disrespect, with such de-valueing? I don't even know you and I know you deserve better treatment.

Don't try to contact him anymore. In fact, you'd be doing yourself a favour if you blocked and deleted him from all means of contact. Unfortunately, I know you'll not do that. Be a "good girl" to yourself and move on without ever speaking to him again.