Heh, I figure I'd ask a bit of a lighter question. I've been away from my ex for 2 weeks now, things are moving along, it was a short enough relationship that I don't have too many memories that burn me. Sometimes I still get annoyed at how little she cared about our relationship compared to ones she has had in the past.
We signed on for a softball tournament in mid-July as a couple, the team is loaded, 18 players, and doesn't REALLY need me. I'm NC with my ex in order to move on, and seeing her there might very well set me back, especially if she is with someone there. I'll have to forfeit my entry fee, but thats not a big deal.
In order to continue healing, should I make up an excuse not to play and pull out of the tourney? What would you do?