I joined a dating site called Undercover Lovers just for fun and because my marriage was going through yet another rocky patch. I didn't intend to actually have real world meetings with any guys off the site, but have now met one I really like. We've not yet consumated the relationship but it's taking all of my self control not to. My husband and I have lnot had any physical intimacy for years and the attention from this new man has transformed my feelings of self worth. Do I go all the way with him or wave goodbye now before it gets any more serious?