Not sure if he still wants to be with me, any advice would help.

[Kaylen]

Hi, my partner and I have known each other as friends for 8 years, we are both 26, lost touch for a few years and caught up 3 years back. We've been together as partners for almost 2 years now, about a year ago I had some issues with my (lady bits) which lead to lack of sex and even now with things mostly fixed we are still now lucky to have sex once every month and we seem to have very little passion between us, in addition to this he does'nt tell me when something is wrong, instead he waits until it is the absolute last minute or even too late before he tells me (his words). He has also explained to me (in an alco fueled arguement) that there are things that I have been unknowingly doing that annoy him, alot. and the fact I may want children later in life and he doesnt want any at all, ever. I am doing my best to stop doing these annoying habbits and we have decided to give things a retry a few days ago, however, I fear that he may be just 'giving us another go' because I think I made him feel guilty in the way that I would be alone in this state (as I moved over 1200km to here for him and all our friends are his more so than mine) and I am not currently in the best financial situations either. My head keeps replaying the words he said to me the night of the arguement "Im Done! We're Done" and it upsets me to think he's giving us ago for the wrong reasons. I want us to work, he is more important to me than the want children, but Im scared he just wants to give up on us as (and his words) "Its the easy way out". and I'm scared of having noone and of being alone. Any Advice would be great, Thanks.

[firewalkerhike]

some people just don`t want children because it is a responsbility, let alone your financial situation is not that good, that may be one of the reason why he pissed off. Do not mind if he said something like " we are done" people tend to be unreasonale. I think he still want to be with you, you should give him some space. Or he may tired of being with you because it is easliy fight with each other. I think you two are good, do not worried too much!

P.S. please answer mine!