Is this a date?

[Mark1]

Hello all. I dont think I have ever been asked out before, so I have no idea if this is a date or not.

There was a girl in my class last semester. Very pretty. We didn't talk much because we sat on other sides of the room. She was also quiet in the class setting, but when she spoke she seemed nice.

I hadn't seen her since December, until a Friday night in early May at the bar. I don't drink and she knows that, even so, when she saw me she came running over, "Maaaarkk!!" I got a kiss, and we held each others hands while talking. She wasn't very drunk, and her friend was totally fine. Before she leaves she gives me her number and tells me to call her Saturday night to go out to another bar together.

Just to make sure, I say, "You're gonna remember giving me your number, right?" And she looks me straight in the eye and says, "Yes. i'm not like that, I'll remember."

Even so, I'm like, "okay whatever, she's drunk, she probably doesn't really mean it." But I text her Saturday anyways to see if she wants to go.

She replies, "Hey I have plans tonight, but what are you doing for dinner?"

So from there we've been texting. She's back home for the summer, but we are still trying to get a time for dinner.

Very excited, but I find a few things interesting.

-Girl asking a guy to dinner?
-We hardly ever talked during class and now she wants to hang?

So, a good situation! But I thought it was interesting nonetheless.

Is it a date?

I've also been told I will find out within 15 minutes whether it is a date or not, based on her behavior.

All thoughts are appreciated!

[maxmax]

So you've posted pretty much the same thread to the one in the other section ... which you already have several responses to.

That not enough for you?

[DarkHelmet82]

go out with her.. offer to pay if she says no more than twice then its not a date... simple as taht

[smackie9]

Hey wait a min....that's not for sure. I've asked guys out and paid. That's a date in my eyes.....it's not the 1950's ya know.