Does he still like me?

[iamminzy]

So I dated this guy online since Jan. We been going out almost every week. In march, he ignored me and my calls for 2 days and then he finally responded back to me saying that he was busy and he was hardly home. He been using the time to think about our future whether I want to have children or move in with him later on in the future. He seemed a bit insecure since his gf who was with him for 4 years said she didn't want children.

My brother will be moving to LA soon and my parents will be lonely... they are getting old now, but if I do move in with him, I will be about 40-1 hour away from them depending on traffic. The first time around, I joked with them and said that I want to move out and my parents cuz they were gonna rely on me to help them with things when my brother is gone, but they said no your too young to move out. I live in a Chinese Family so my family can't accept the fact that I am growing up and wants to continue to protect me. My dad even said don't get pregnant and things like that. He kept asking me about whether I will move in with him and finally told him my parents might not let me, but I am not sure cuz I slightly made it up when he kept pestering me. I didn't ask my parents the second time around.

I kinda regretted, but I tried to stay strong. I do like him, but sometimes I guess i am scared thinking about the future. He continues to go out with other girls even when he was dating me. I only dated other guys cuz he been dating other girls.. he told me if I was his gf he won't go out with other girls. he came to my house and met my dad after we called it off and he gave me a present he got when he was in hawaii... and I have to wonder and question myself, do I still like him and does he still like me?
I did get jealous when he told me that he had one of the best dates with this other girl and that she is fun. So all this time I went out with him, it wasn't the best date. I just said o, good luck.

Then 2 days later, he asked me if I want to go on a trip with him and his friends and I said sure I love to. I don't what I am doing, but does he still like me if he is still asking me to go on a trip with him and his friends? Last time, he told me he was going to the aquarium with his friends and I said I wanna go to the acquarium and he said sure and we kinda kissed in the car...

Was he trying to get me jealous by telling me that he had one of the best dates with that girl and he told me wanted to see her. and I just didn't know what to say. I saw this tv show called Life with Derek and it mentioned thaty girls and guys can't be friends and I told him it's cuz one of them may get the wrong signal. He said he gets the wrong signal too. and said from who? and he said me...... trying to forget about him. I guess I can't accept the fact that he' dating me and wants to start something but continues to date other girls...? iono....

[VincenzoG91]

One hour away from your parents is no big deal. You can't stay their little girl forever, you need to grow up and stand on your own two feet. Your relationship with this guy isn't going anywhere until you're ready to act like an adult.

That said, this might not be the right guy for you. Let him know that you're ready to move away from your parents, but only if he is ready to be exclusive with you. If he can't make a commitment, then he isn't worth the trouble with your parents.

It would probably be best if you moved out on your own and not in with some guy. Give your parents a chance to adjust to you being a responsible adult without stressing out over some guy.