what if his cock is too big for me and it hurts

[Vert]

we tried lubricant but that doesn't work half of the times. The only times that it doesn't hurt is when i am super wet and horny..sometimes we have to stop quicker than we would like because i cant take the pain. sometimes it hurts for days. i don't know if we need to try a different lubricant or maybe i just need to do some yoga and stretch my vagina??? am i letting him down? guys would you leave your girl for that?

[doppelgaenger]

Sometimes it's just too big. Perhaps you could save sex for when you're super horny. Otherwise, he needs to step up and do some more foreplay so there's no pain.

[imagineallthe]

these things happen, some men have extremely large cocks.. I'm sure he's experienced this "problem" with other girls as well and if he's grown up about it, he'll fix it by giving you amazing foreplay or something

[steviej]

Stick it up your pooper. You won't complain about it hurting vaginally ever again

[Gratedwasabi]

You can't...stretch...your...vagina... sigh.

[Petit Papillon]

Stick it up your pooper. You won't complain about it hurting vaginally ever again

Talking bout stupid answers...

To OP , it happens, try more foreplay, to make you extremely wet . But you have to stop thinking and stressing over it cause it won't help at all . I know that lube doesn't work that well for me for example . I just don't use it ,but I also mostly don't need it ... And vagina can stretch actually, somehow babies come out of there so as long as this cock isn't thicker than a baby's head, everything is possible . But then, you have to start the penetration slowly and stretch the vagina a bit . Don't make your bf move too fast and too aggresive, let it be more gentle, at least at the beginning . It's all matter of getting used to it and finding a way how to make it less painfull.
And if it's about him being too long, just don't let him get too deep and that's it .Anyway he should feel where is the limit, but if he doesn't ,tell him while you two have sex .

[Vert]

You can't...stretch...your...vagina... sigh.

LOL..well some girls can take big dick..so i thought that it stretch over time

[Vert]

so as long as this cock isn't thicker than a baby's head, everything is possible .

lol of course it's not thicker than a babies head..i would have to create a tunnel..sigh

[ShellyZ]

He needs to adjust his technique. Obviously lots of foreplay and lube is required, but when it comes time for the actual sex, he needs to go VERY slow. He shouldn't be pushing it in. Excuse me if this is too graphic, but when the tip of his penis is at your opening, he should stop as soon as he feels resistance. I'm not saying he should pull away, he should just stop and hold still. During sex, the vagina stretches temporarily to accommodate the penis (the vagina returns to its normal size after sex -- you can't stretch it permanently). The reason most girls feel pain the first time is because the guy doesn't wait for the vagina to stretch, he just pushes it in. But if he waits, the vagina will slowly stretch enough to allow the penis to slip in comfortably.

Don't be afraid to stop and apply more lube as he goes. My first time, it literally took about 10 minutes just to get it in, and every time my boyfriend felt a little resistance, he stopped and waited. Because of that, I felt very little pain. It was slow but not painful. And he applied another drop of lube at about the halfway point. Hope that helps.

[bulrush]

First, he needs to put lube (proper lube) on himself AND on you. And be generous about it, don't skimp on lube. First, aloe gel works but only for about 5 minutes, when it soaks in and is useless. Mineral oil (baby oil) also works. As do proper lubes.

Second, one can use dildos of various sizes to stretch out the vag, but the vag often stretches back. So, during sex, I think if you relaxed your muscles, it would help. Once he is in, don't move for a minute or so, until you get used to him. Your vag will stretch and relax a bit.

Just try to consciously relax your vag muscles. It might take practice, so keep trying.

Also, he needs to move slowly so he doesn't hurt you, and you should tell him to stop for a minute if you are hurting, but he shouldn't pull out. You should let your muscles relax and get used to him. When your muscles relax and get used to him he can move a little again.

The other thing is, you can lie on your back with your ankles straight up. This pivots your pelvis, opens you up, and makes things easier.

I had this trouble with a gf recently. She was just really small, and I think she was nervous too, as it was the first few times we were together when we had the issue.

[Vert]

First, he needs to put lube (proper lube) on himself AND on you. And be generous about it, don't skimp on lube. First, aloe gel works but only for about 5 minutes, when it soaks in and is useless. Mineral oil (baby oil) also works. As do proper lubes.

Second, one can use dildos of various sizes to stretch out the vag, but the vag often stretches back. So, during sex, I think if you relaxed your muscles, it would help. Once he is in, don't move for a minute or so, until you get used to him. Your vag will stretch and relax a bit.

Just try to consciously relax your vag muscles. It might take practice, so keep trying.

Also, he needs to move slowly so he doesn't hurt you, and you should tell him to stop for a minute if you are hurting, but he shouldn't pull out. You should let your muscles relax and get used to him. When your muscles relax and get used to him he can move a little again.

The other thing is, you can lie on your back with your ankles straight up. This pivots your pelvis, opens you up, and makes things easier.

I had this trouble with a gf recently. She was just really small, and I think she was nervous too, as it was the first few times we were together when we had the issue.

Thanks a lot this was so helpful. i will definitely take your advice.

[Simonsaysyes]

make sure you have lots of foreplay to get you super wet and horny every single time you sleep with this guy.

[Simonsaysyes]

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[rvanodia]

You are lucky you have a big cock. Some can take big cocks up in their ass. So why you cannot take in your virginia?

[cologne]

Wish i could get a girl with a tight p***y like yours.Vaginas of most girls out there are as wide as the yankee's stadium.