Originally Posted by
Becca-leigh
I think you answered your own question with' I know she is still very young', hell, your still young too! By the sounds of it she is a young girl just starting to experience and experiment with life. She is working out who she is and where she fits in with the adult society. Why do you think it's a common fantasy among men to be with a 18 yr old? Looks of course, youthfulness is very attractive but also because they are eger to please and somewhat naive. This is amplified if she has abandonment issues, especially with dad/men. She may 'love' you again if you decide to pursue her but how true the love is should be questioned. My advice is to accept that for the next year or more she is going to be making all the mistakes an 18yr old will make, if you do love her, stay in touch, brace yourself for a world of hurt and confusion and wait out the storm but be prepared, she might not be who or what you wanted or expected when all is said and done. Best of luck