Confused that does he like me

[vvnnpp]

I met a guy through common friend and we started chatting online everyday.we chatted for hours n we liked each others company.and eventually we confessed that we like each other. It went for 6months and then chatting became less.when I buzzed him, he talks to me for hours but never starts talking on his own.today I told him that I miss u sometimes.he said that it's because we chat less. I asked him that do u miss talking to me? He said that he does not know and he takes things as it comes.He does not think about it. In between when I stopped talking, he buzzed me that why I m not chatting with him anymore? He has confessed many times that he likes me.we have met 3-4 times.I really like this guy but can't figure what's on his mind?? What should I do??

[smackie9]

Don't expect a guy to always make a move......really show him you are interested, ask him out yourself, flirt with him, smile, laugh, be cheerful, make him feel special, be assertive......if you don't get the response you are looking for then drop him.

[vvnnpp]

Thanks for the reply!! I make a move first but he shows that he does not care sometimes....I like him.....but how can I figure it out that he likes me.........if he likes me, I can always make a first move ...........but need to be sure about that,,,How can I be?

[smackie9]

Don't worry about that, just do your thing and if you don't get anywhere with him you will have your answer.