I met this girl few years back and i have a very strong desire to marry her.She was in a relationship before i met her.When we started dating, she claimed she was seriously in love with me and that she has left her boyfriend because of me.Overtime, i noticed she was still in communication with her 'supposed ex'(i used 'supposed ex' because i wasn't really sure she has left the guy);they texted each other.When i go through her cell phone at times i find no messages or call records;she deletes all her call log,inbox and sent messages.This is someone who receives and make calls all the time.
Being very observant,i noticed there is also this guy who has a crush on her and her attitude towards this guy, i must say is inviting.In all these,i kept mute because i didn't want her to say i am jealous or that i don't want her to have friends.I expressed my concerns to her though but she claimed the guy in question does not even have her phone number.
One afternoon i caught her on the phone conversing with this guy.When i confronted her she denied but later accepted it was the guy after i threatened to quit the relationship.She also claimed she did not know how the guy got her phone number.I forgave her and we moved on.Meanwhile, she had still been talking to her 'supposed ex'.Luckily , she lost her phone and i had to buy her a new phone with a new number entirely so that her 'supposed ex' and this new guy in question will end communication with her.She promised me she was going to end communication with them and ensure they don't have her new number.
Unfortunately, i relocated 12 months ago because of work demands.She is still in college and cant move to where i am now.My intention is to marry her as soon as she finishes college.Few months after i relocated,i found out her 'supposed ex' have started communicating with her again on the new phone i bought for her.When i asked how the guy got the number? She claimed she didn't know and placed the defense he must have gotten the number from someone else.More so, i noticed a huge traffic in her calls due her incessant communication on the phone even at late hours.I became worried because there is no time i call her that my call is not on call waiting.I asked her about it but she never really opened-up about those she was talking to.Only recently, i found out she has bought a second phone and she didn't even tell me about it or even gave me the number probably because i complained about her calls.
Worst still, when i asked her if the other guy that has been having crush on her was still in contact with her? She said the guy does not even have her number.But a very reliable friend who is close to the guy told me the guy has the number of the phone i bought for her even called the number to me to prove it.Guys i am really confused about what to do.I don't trust her anymore.I strongly believe is cheating on me.
I have only been this critical about her because i seriously want to know the girl i want to marry.She has done so many things that are enough for me to walk-away out of her life but love won't let me go.But right now my mind feel kind of made up on her.Having a second phone with out telling me or giving me the number i think is big enough.I need honest advice please.I am totally depressed.