Been into Online dating recently. Seems I've got a method going that returns an average of one third of the girls I contact I go out with.
No jacked stories, no manipulative mind games, just old fashion "Nice" dates.
Little background on me:
I'm told I look like a cross between Justin Timberlake and a younger Eric Dane (From Greys Anatomy). I've got a little extra weight around the mid section but not enough to be terribly off putting. Its pretty obvious pretty fast I lean more toward the "dorky" side as I was raised by a couple of Sci-Fi and Lord of the Rings nerds. I try not too show off "bling" but its also obvious im well off (I make more than 100k a year which is average for where I live)
So far there are a few Constants emerging from my online dating experience. Mind you these are the 3rd of the girls I send a message too that will go out with me.
1. Typically pretty overweight. Not a deal killer as I like women to have curves but there are limits.
2. They are typically unemployed or have a "MC.Job" like at Starbucks. NOT okay for someone in their late 20's/early 30's.
3. They have never been in a relationship before.
Date usually goes "well" as there is a good exchange back and forth. I always pay and always act respectful like a gentlemen. The date usually ends a little awkward with it being obvious I've struck a cord with them. They usually send me all the "signs" and act giggly and nervous. Should see these girls face when I bust out my credit card to pay...
I use to believe women DIDN'T want a good looking, gainfully employed, chivalrous gentlemen as the majority of women seem to date bottom feeding losers but as I've gotten older its become clear that most, if not ALL women, want that but only large, never loved, under achieving girls will actually "go for it".
Why do you think this is?
P.S. Further more why is it I get no response when trying to set up a second date?