Hey guys, a few months ago I had this issue with my ex where everything went wrong and escalated when I tried to help in a very serious matter. I've now come to the conclusion that I did the right thing, for the right reasons only for the wrong girl. She broke contact with me after that and I havent heard from her in months. With now the big problem: she called me yesterday when I was on a dance festival. But she did not call me on my birthday a few days ago.
Im asking you guys what I should do? she hurt my feelings and the time with her was pretty destructive and emotionally heavy. But I love her dearly but i'm not sure if it's the best idea for myself to get back in touch im not sure if I can handle it. Or on the other side she might be ready now and not act like a retard and actually give a damn about me.
On a better note I met a girl like years ago and I have no clue how I got her on IM etc, but yesterday we met up at a the festival she's really beautiful and she seemed to be interested in me, she was touching my arm and chest and touched well... my rear more than once but she has a guy she's seeing and he arrived later, I knew he was gonna be there too and when I saw him I was kinda shocked because he looked really old like atleast twice her age. Nonetheless I introduced myself but I found him annoying because he acted like half her age. (He might be very nice and good for her I dont know).
So I just cracked some jokes etc and she seemed to enjoy that but i'm not really sure what to think of it, I've texted her that i'd love to see her again and that I had a great time but she replies pretty slow, and i'm not sure how to handle this other guy thing, because when I saw them make out (his iniative) I got kinda ticked off and I gave her less attention but my friends told me she was looking at me the whole time and smiling but I kinda slightly turned my side towards her so didn't have to be confronted with her kissing the other guy. Although I did notice when I had to leave she asked me to stay but I couldnt so I took off but I turned my head to her like twice whilst walking away and both times she was looking at me.
obviously I like her, and I want to get to know her better and take it really slow because my ex truly busted my balls in my last relationship so I myself have trust issues and find it very hard to love someone.
Could you guys give me advice in both issues?