Spoke to my Ex today and I just feel so completely heart broken...........

[pisces25]

It is good that you are at that stage. After denial and then anger sadness comes along but then not long after acceptance does.

It is not your fault. You need to start letting go of some of the guilt.

[ladyl]

Thanks. I justy want to contact him but I know it's because I feel so emotional and all I'll do is make a fool of myself then feel even worse. I totally need to sort my head out!

[pisces25]

You're head will sort itself out. Don't force it. just let the thoughts come and go. 'THIS TOO SHALL PASS'

[McRich01]

So just to clarify, You broke up with him ? And you want him back after 4 weeks ?

Not being funny, My ex broke up with me 4 weeks ago, 2 nearly 3 weeks of no contact have passed, I can certainly tell you if my ex tried getting back with me in a weeks time i'd tell her to f**k off !!!

People recover and move on, Especially after being 'dumped', Just like me.

It will hit the dumper at some point of what they have lost. Whilst the dumped person will go through shit for a month, Then they will have moved on, The dumper has yet to go through that stage.