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    Need some advice...

    So there's this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me back... There have been a few incidences where I thought he might like me more than a friend, but then I can't be sure, so I would really like some opinions.

    We've known each other now for about 6 months. We first met when we started our course together but because we're studying different disciplines, we don't tend to bump into each other all that much. Initially, he would give me this cheeky wink when no one else was around. But then I wasn't sure whether he was just being friendly or not, so I would always just smile back.

    Later on, everytime we see each other he would always make a point to say hello and ask how things are going. One time, we had a class together. I was in the room with 2 other girls. He walked in and said "Morning Rekka", then followed by "How's everyone doing today?"... I don't know whether him singling me out meant anything. Should I take much notice of this or not? Everytime we've had class together he wouldn't make a point to sit next to or near me though...

    Then another time, we had class together again, and he commented on how nice my top was in front of the other classmates (it was a small class, only 6 of us). So, I'm not quite sure what to make of it...

    Few months ago, I asked him for some contact details of this business contact that I needed but I didn't have my phone with me. So he asked for my number and texted me the details. To me this means that he has my number... but he hasn't texted or called.

    But since then, we've gone to coffee a few times. Each time, when we happen to bump to each other, he would ask "Are you free? Do you want to go grab a coffee?" Quite an inocuous question one could ask any friend, but he would insist on paying for my coffee as well. Does that mean he was just being polite/nice to a coffee buddy? Or something more? Every time we've sat down and chatted about random things, not just buy the coffee to go. Sometimes he would order something to eat as well so we would chat for a while. I want to also ask, if I go to coffee with him again, should I insist on paying?

    I haven't seen him now for over 2 weeks, and right now I can't stop dissecting every conversation we've had. Whether he's a really friendly person who enjoys the company of a coffee buddy, or someone who wants to be more than a friend (I'm not even sure we can be classified as "friends" yet because so far we're more like "acquaintances"). So can someone please give me some pointers? Thanks in advance!

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    How about you ask him? Or if your interested in him, better yet ask him on a date

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