I want to have sex with an older woman

[Mark1]

Hi all -

I have a thing for older women (Im 22). A lot of times at the gas station or the grocery store there are a lot of older women who are attractive. Sometimes much older.

A few of them have began small talk with me, but nothing beyond that. I've never started the conversation.

I'm sure this is probably very unrealistic, but I want to go home with 1 of them them/take them home and hook up with them. I don't know what the appeal is, I just do.

And its only older women. Maybe I think they don't get much sex or something.

Anyone have any experiences/suggestions? I almost made a comment to an older woman about her ass one time, but I chickened out.

I'm probably crazy, but I thought Id post this anyways.

[ctr916]

I am not sure it would be unrealistic; some women have not had any problems making their "consumer preference" known by preferring some younger guy friends to me. The stigma that was attached to older women with younger men does not seem to be as much of an issue in modern times with modern internet porn.

[Mark1]

I guess I don't really know what to say to them.

It'd be kinda rude just to make a comment about their physicality, no?

I guess i would want an actual relationship with them...

[ctr916]

Sure. I am trying to use true witness bearing for goodness and not badness whenever possible; constructive criticism always helps.

[doppelgaenger]

Yuck.

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[Mark1]

Sure. I am trying to use true witness bearing for goodness and not badness whenever possible; constructive criticism always helps.

I should give them constructive criticism? Huh?

[ctr916]

It could help more than simply being rude, if you want a friend with benefits relationship.

[Mark1]

It could help more than simply being rude, if you want a friend with benefits relationship.

I just didn't understand what you mean. Could you give an example?

[ctr916]

I am a self-professed nice guy; I have only heard that bad boys simply need to be rude to get laid.

[vampiress]

I just didn't understand what you mean. Could you give an example?

it means if u just want to have sex with some older woman with no strings attached you just have to be bold as brass about it and it often works....
can i ask u something??? when you say OLDER, how old do u mean???? ten years???? twenty?????

[eo_ih]

Try dating sites - I've had a couple of 40+ women from there. I guess I'm glad I tried it but I now firmly prefer younger!

[ctr916]

it means if u just want to have sex with some older woman with no strings attached you just have to be bold as brass about it and it often works....
can i ask u something??? when you say OLDER, how old do u mean???? ten years???? twenty?????

Why not simply claim to be "older" and try to meet or beat any quota just for practice to see if you would be able to get a bonus if you worked in sales? According to many women, men are not capable of maintaining their Standards; so why be shy? If you are any judge of character at all, you should be able to weed out some guys who have double-standards.

[Superfantastich]

perhaps try somewhere social like a gym?, plenty of cougars..

[Henry123]

I think I learnt to appreciate older women.
Personally I would go with both older (with reasonble looks) and younger.

[Mark1]

How do I openly flirt without being rude? Im better at doing it subtly...