Imagine this- you meet a chick while out, you ask for her number and organize a date. On this date you find out she is a single mum, do you politely run? If not, does this change what type of relationship you want (one nighter, long term, friendship, **** buddies, you get what I mean). All in all, what's your take on single mums?
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Thread: To kid or not to kid?
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12-07-11, 11:19 PM #1
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To kid or not to kid?
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13-07-11, 12:27 AM #2
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Well I know as a girl I'd run as fast as I could the other way from a single dad.
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13-07-11, 01:31 AM #3
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.... and I know that I'd run away as fast as I can from a guy that would demote a girl to fck buddy from potential long term relationship just because she has kids. If a guy doesn't like dating woman who have already given birth then my suggestions is to dismiss yourself from the situation and explain why you won't be calling ever again. Don't keep her around for a warm wet place to masturbate... that's why God gave you two perfectly good hands. Use the left for the feeling of someone new.
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13-07-11, 01:35 AM #4
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i am not scared of single moms with kids nor am i scared of their package deal that comes with them. by the time you 30 a good amount of women have children already. its called deal with it.
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13-07-11, 02:41 AM #5
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I have zero desire to ever have kids, so I wouldn't want someone else's either. If they were cool, I'd try to (genuinely) remain friends with them. No reason not to have as many of those as possible.
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13-07-11, 08:14 AM #6
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As long as she isn'tt pushing me to be the new baby daddy on day one I'll stick around. if she tries to then i'll run...
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13-07-11, 08:38 AM #7
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Also depends on your age. At 38 and a single father, I want a women with kids. Once you have kids, your view of the world and priorities do a 180
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14-07-11, 03:51 AM #8
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It depends on the person. I like kids, so it doesn't bother me. But at my age, most mom's don't want a date to meet their kids for a few months at least.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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