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    Trying to figure out what's going on

    Okay, I started a new job in early April. Well I started in one of the departments my second week there and met this girl. Her and I began talking almost immediately. It turns out she has a boyfriend. She often talks about the problems they have, etc. I friended her on Facebook. Her and I text each other a lot, etc. Over time I've grown to truly like and care about her. Not in a sexual, but a romantic nature. We often talk about relationships and what we both want and desire. Pretty much the same. She still talks about the problems her and her BF have. Well one day about a week ago I posted on Facebook: There are times when you meet someone, who you truly care about and would do anything for, despite the fact that you'll probably never be able to develop a relationship with them.

    I was hoping for her to see that posting and realize it's about her. Well, she was out of town at the time and didn't see the posting. A couple days later she invited me over to watch a couple movies and cook me dinner. Her and I were talking and I told her about that posting, and meaning for her to see it and realize it's about her. She said she didn't see it. Well, while I was there she replied to it and said: Then there are times when they come into your life for a reason...

    I didn't see that posting until I got home later that evening. In your opinion, what is that reply supposed to mean?

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    Do you really want to be that guy?

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    What are you talking about?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chris Hayes View Post
    What are you talking about?
    Stop pursuing someone who has a boyfriend.

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