Ok first off, i need to ask you to keep an open mind when reading this. I am by no means a home wrecker.
I met this man that i get along with really well. We met online. Chatted for weeks. We finally met. Sparks flew. The chemistry was and still is red hot.
Now the kicker is that he has a live in girlfriend this past 3 years. Now, before you start bashing me, i have to say that this kind of thing i dont do. I am the first person to say, run, run fast. But the problem is that i really truully think he is meant for me.
I know hes not happy. From what he tells me, she is lazy, controlling, and he is tired of it. He says he is falling out of love with her. This is not the kind of guy that cheats. We havent even kissed. But we both want to. He is constantly asking me what to do? I wont advise him. The worst thing i can do is tell him what he should do. Dont men hate that? Isnt that the situation he is in right now? I dont want to tell him to leave her, even though thats exactly what i want to say. I wont even bring her up.
When he is with me, she is constantly calling and texting him, he cant pee without her knowing it. We have been friends now for 8 months. I want to move things along. I need advise.
I want to call him a pussy. I want to say that if he is unhappy now, it will only get worse. I want to say that i am not going to wait around. I want to tell soooo much, but i am biting my tongue.