I finished with him was because he spoke quite frequently about his ex girlfriend they dated for 3 years and split up just over one year ago. He got a bit peed off with me for trying to finish it and didnt give me opportunity to explain why maybe if he had we could have resolved our differences.
You know when you grow up and quit trying to manipulate men to do what you want and instead have meaningful and open communcations about what is bothering you and what will make you less angsty.. then and only then will you be mature enough to have a relationship last past the I really need to **** you now stage.
He didnt give me opportunity to explain why maybe if he had we could have resolved our differences.
You're dumb. Why would you break up with him before giving him a chance to redeem himself to what YOU perceive him doing you wrong? Next time talk first and don't use breaking up as a manipulation tool to get what you want.
I hope he ignores your attempts to get him back. You're not mature enough to be in a relationship and I'd hate to think you're going around screwing with guys heads by trying to manipulate what you want instead of just asking for what you want. When you do grow up, look for a guy that is close enough for you to actually get to know one another and bond emotionally AND intimately. 100 miles away is not conducive to forming lasting bonds.
Last edited by Wakeup; 15-07-11 at 03:45 AM.
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