Not sure where I should have posted this, sorry!
Ok, so my wife and I have been married 7 years now, we have 2 kids. We have had our share of issues. 2 1/2 years ago, I left her and we split. I was not the best husband. I was not ready to be both a dad and a husband and I screwed up. I was an a**...I left her for another woman. That relationship did not work out and we ended up reconciling last year. Since then, I have been a saint...finally ready to be her everything.
Recently she went to visit a male friend in Chicago. She says they are just friends but while there, she did not respond to any of my calls of texts. She returned...told me she did that on purpose to show me how it felt. She says she didn't cheat...I feel emotional cheating is no different than physical cheating. She is saying that she is having a really hard time getting over what I did in the past. I understand that...I do but right after we split, she was involved in a relationship herself and didnt seem to have an issue getting over it and what I had done then.
I am lost, lately she has been distant and says she doesn't feel close to me. I know there is no time frame to get over things and forgive and move on but I feel as if she is not trying very hard to get over it and why now....after we have been back together for over a year now.
Any insight/advice/help would be appreciated....I am going nuts over here...hate this feeling I have