First kiss issue

[Giorgio89]

Hello,

yesterday night I went on a date with a girl I like.
At a certain point I was feeling like I had to kiss her: she was standing in front of me, looking to me, touching her hair with her hands and her arms wide open. I knew I had to kiss her and wanted to, but it felt so unnatural and so I did nothing, letting the moment pass by. This happened more than once.

Cannot find any kind of fear to associate to my issue: I've already kissed some girls (and have had some girlfriends too), also was quite sure she wanted me to kiss her, and I'm not emotionally involved that much.
I've had this problem plenty times in past, and think that the biggest issue is the position: I can easily kiss a girl if we're dancing with my hands over her hips, but if I'm standing or sitting next to her I feel it very difficult to move my head by 30 centimeters in order to kiss her.

This is really frustrating.
Any tips or advices to succeed next time?

[devonbrown]

Close your eyes, and just move in. Don't think about it. If you start thinking about it, it will just make you overthink it and you will become paralyzed with your overthinking.

Good luck.

[Boisdevie]

Decide to live your life as a single person and one day end up dead in some horrible flat half eaten by your cats.
OR grow some balls and just go for it - what on earth do you have to lose? I once tried to kiss a girl on a first date. By the third date we were at it like rabbits.

[bulrush]

Practice kissing her in situations that make you uncomfortable. Do it until you feel better about it and don't hesitate.