Alright so last I posted, my girlfriend of over a year had told me she "couldnt do this anymore" and pretty much ended it over a week ago. I hadn't contacted her since until she texted me last friday to tell me about an interview at my school, which is out of our home state. I replied briefly but positively and she texted back immediately making a joke etc. I asked all of you about offering her to stay with me and pick her up from the airport etc for her interview.
Well then this past Sunday night she texted me again to tell me that "she really didnt things how they were now" I texted back that I didnt like things either and we ended up talking on the phone late into the night. She texted me much of the next day and we again talked on the phone late that night. We talked again today. Lots of good conversation but we have not addressed the issue of us and our relationship.
I want some advice on how to proceed from here? Should I outwardly ask where she wants this to go now? Do I bring up the issue at all? Also, I am going home in a two weeks so it would be possible to wait and have an in-person conversation about this then. Part of me thinks I should wait until I am home to bring it up. The other part of me wants to address it now as I wonder if continuing to just let it ride will only put me in the "friend zone" and I would rather have a decision made one way or the other then get caught in that. Then again, she has mentioned in the recent past that we could never be "only friends" so maybe Im just being paranoid.
Anyways, any advice is appreciated as always.
Thanks!



" I texted back that I didnt like things either and we ended up talking on the phone late into the night. She texted me much of the next day and we again talked on the phone late that night. We talked again today. Lots of good conversation but we have not addressed the issue of us and our relationship.
