Move on. You did blow it. Its ok, you are human and we humans make mistakes. You know your flaws now, and its up to you to be smart enough to learn from them and to fix them. You need to do this so you don't carry this kind of behavior in your next relationship. If you do, its like cancer and your screwed right off of the bat with your new girlfriend. If you get back with her, you have to find new solutions, to old problems. Once you damage the relationship, its almost impossible to repair it. Relationships are like, "one time use only". Besides, Im sure you will find someone 10 times better anyway. Don't give up. Just be patient. With her contacting you, she is just playing games with you, but she doesn't know that she is doing it. I'm sure she is grieving, and there are several steps in the grieving process. So I guessing that being said, is part of the reason why she is still talking to you every now and then. Its normal, women think and act on emotions. Its just the way they are wired, and there is nothing wrong with it, it has its pro's and con's like everything else. There is no logic or reasoning with women, just pure emotion. For us men, we base things on logic, and it also has it pro's and con's. Both sexes have to learn to adapt and accept each other as we are. Good Luck, I give you my best.
Last edited by Agent85; 22-07-11 at 03:37 PM.
I don't mind being blunt and cold to the core....everyone needs to be put in their place once in a while.