I need to know if this is something all women do. I was married to a beautiful women I loved very much and would do most anything for her. We would go with a group of friends camping, it was always a lot of fun for me but I find out that it was even more fun for my wife. Everyone in the group would drink but my wife was a big drinker and would stay up till the last person would go to bed. I guess you can say I would go to bed early say around midnight and my wife would never come to bed when I was ready. Well one time wyhen I went to bed my wife didn't come to bed till 7 am in the morning, when I ask where she was she said she was up all night walking around with this guy that was a friend of thiss other girl, this guy was from Canada and was camping with us for the frist time. She said they just walked around all night talking and watched the sun come up. I didn't say anything, I trusted my wife and she never gave me a reason not to. Well the next time we all got together she came back to the camper around 3 am and this time I was waiting for her. She tells me that my friend would always ask her to have sex with him up the butt, she never told me he would say stuff to her like that and if she would have I would have been nice about and told my friend to stop. Well she tells me he would ask her all the time so she got tired of it and said ok. So they did it outside in the grass behind his truck, she tells me it was only in the butt and not any place else. She tells me there was nothing wrong that she did because it was on had sex with him and it was in the butt. Now let me tell you she would never let me touch her butt let along stick anything in it. So tell me is this what all women do and feel there is nothing wrong about it? We are divorced and I do forgive her but she feels if I forgive her we sould get back together. I do love her but not in love with her, I can't go back I can never trust her again and never would be able to take her anyplace. Am I wrong for feeling like this?
Feelbetrayed.