I have kind of a predicament and I'm looking for advice/perspectives. I've been told on more than one occasion that I am good looking and I've been told I'm funny, which I believe. That being said, I'm 22 and I have never kissed a girl. So maybe they were liars! and I'm not good looking OR very funny. I'm not too happy with my body, like my abs aren't very impressive but I really think it is my lack of esteem,gumption and confidence. Which raises the question do I absolutely need confidence to find someone? I'm totally willing to take a physical abuser as well as a cheater, so I figure that would broaden my chances. As crazy as it sounds sometimes I think I'd enjoy being in physical abusive relationship because I'd know she wouldn't leave me because no other guy would be willing to take her abuse, and most abusers have honeymoon phases where they are really nice to their victim. But I don't know that's all hypothetical at this point. So anyway any tips,hints,advice would be greatly appreciated, and thank you for reading this long ass thread too.