I am having my first long-distance relationship and it is giving me hell of a time.
My gf went to her hometown to visit her family and friends. Of course, she has many guy friends that she considers close that I haven't met yet. I have several questions that run through my mind and I couldn't answer because of my subjective and destructive thoughts of jealousy and I beleive people here could help me with that.
1) She spends one of her days at a guy friend's house and they watch tv series/movies and do karaoke. This is what I usually do with my gf when we are at her or my place and I couldn't help being jealous and uncomfortable, seeing that she is doing these with another guy. Is it acceptable for her to do that?
2) Regarding her close friends living in her hometown, I have only met one of her female best friends in person and has seen another very close female friend in her photos. Since I am not introduced to other friends, including close guy friends, I can't stop feeling insecure and jealous of the guy friends she is spending time with. Should I have a right to ask her to tell me about these guys, how they met, etc. to make me feel more comfortable? Is it OK that she hasn't shown me their photos or hasn't mentioned them before she left? Am I right to think that she could tell me about these guys beforehand so that I am not drawn into these insecure feelings?
As a sidenote, she always tells me what she did that day and usually tells me that she misses me and loves me. Nevertheless, I can't avoid these thoughts eating my brains out.