I agree with you there wake up, but I do have to wonder if there is something to what Vashti says. For me, with personal masturbation I can assure you that what i release is not urine as well, my bladder doesn't engage. There have been times though when I have been with a man where I've had to actually stop myself from releasing anything as I'm not certain I'm not going to pee.
'People are never perfect but love can be. People waste time looking for the perfect lover rather than creating the perfect love' - Princess Leigh-Cheri from Still Life With Woodpecker.