I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years, I am 23 and he is 25. We have had a happy relationship for the most part although recently I have felt frustrated that there are no signs of us moving forward. I have mentioned moving in together in the past but he said that although he would like to do this eventually, he would like to wait until I have finished my studies so that we can buy a house together rather than rent, this will be another 2 years. I have also lived in many different parts of the country and have stated a desire to live with him some place else at home or abroad, an idea he resisted stating that he could not consider moving away, something I could understand entirely. However, more recently his job in industry has come under threat. He told me that he has been looking at other vacancies in the area as he would like to secure a job.
Then I bumped into him and his friend on a night out last night. I was talking to one of my own friends about her plans to move away and stated that in an ideal world I'd like to move away but my boyfriend wouldn't so I couldn't see it happening. At this point my boyfriend's friend interjected (my boyfriend was away at the bar) "actually you should ask him, cause he's been telling me for months he hopes he loses his job so he can move away" ?!?!?!?
Am I to take this as a clue I'm wasting my time with this guy? Should I confront my boyfriend about this? Any input on this would be really appreciated