So, as i mentioned in another thread, my GF broke up with me last week over some circumstances in our lovelife she couldnt deal with, but the thing that pushed her over the edge was the following:
1,5 week ago i met a friend of a friend on Facebook and we started talking a bit and getting to know each other.
I added her to MSN because it was easier to chat that way and she asked to see some pictures because she was curious. So i changed my display picture to several others to show her. No big deal, girls do that all the time. Her own display picture looked like it was taken at some photoshoot, same picture she also used on facebook. I could only see her from the upper chest upwards, and it looked like she was wearing some top. It turned out it was a fancy sports bra.
Anyway, she said the picture was from an semi-pro underwear photoshoot and asked if i wanted to see more of them, she sounded excited and proud of the shoot and even mentioned her mom liked the pictures.
Figuring it wouldnt be that bad, i said "sure, why not?". And she sent me 6 pictures on MSN.
Turns out there was only 1 picture she showed her mom, which was a normally clothed picture. The other 5 were the kind of pictures you see in underwear catalogs. Now the lingerie she was wearing was not all that erotic, no seethrough or lace etc, infact my girlfriend shows more skin and curves when she's wearing her bikini.
I mentioned to the girl i felt i was probably doing something inappropriate by watching these pics, but that she looked nice in them.
I felt awkward about it so i contacted my GF and told her about the new female friend being a little weird because she sent me "sexy pics" within hours of first chatting with me and that it didnt sit right with me.
My girlfriend asked about the pictures and the conversation in which she gave them so i showed them both, explaining the situation surrounding it.
She got really upset and pissed off at me over this. And now, a week later, still hasnt fully forgiven me. Stating that i might aswell have shagged her.
She no longer felt special and claimed she never could again and for her that was the spark to break up with me over this and other reasons. (other reasons being circumstances, not me doing stupid stuff btw.)
I promised i wouldnt do stuff like this again, that i was sorry and pointed out i came to her right away when i felt it was worse than i thought, which helped a bit she said. Last week she said she forgave me but last night it became clear she hadnt "fully forgiven me" and was still upset and angry about it.... ...Double-U-Tee-Eff?
I told her she knows i wouldnt do it if i knew the pics were that inappropriate, to which she agreed but said it didnt matter because it happened anyway. And she doesnt want to hear any explanations etc. When i said that comparing it to "shagging her" was overkill she said i was "entitled to my own opinion."
She just got angry and quit the conversation and went to bed.
I still feel bad about it but i think she's reacting way over the top.