She was actually straight-forward with you and gave you an out both times. You stated:
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WeAreODST47
She text back saying she did like me like that but because nothing seemed to happen and I was always busy that I wasn't interested so kinda got over the idea and just thought of me as a friend really. She also said if I didn't want to see her it was fine,she understood, whatever was best for me.
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WeAreODST47
She replied saying she hadn't thought of me like that for a couple of months and that she didn't now, and that if I thought we couldn't be friends, then its upto me and that she got it.
Women don't want to hurt a man's feelings. The difference between women and men is that we will always give you the option of being a friend if we don't want to pursue a relationship with you. The plus side of this is that she is still letting you know that she likes you but isn't interested in pursuring a romantic relationship with you. In my experience men do not do the same and would prefer not to remain friends with someone that they aren't interested in.
All that being said though, I met a nice man back in January who was interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with me. However I told him I was seeing someone else but that I'd like to remain friends. Luckily we still are.
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