Hi all
I'm kind of new but I don't know where else to turn , sorry to give of this impression of me straight away but i don't know what else to do
I have been with my partner for 6 years now we are living together I'm 24 he 27. We used to be great together but it's becoming a living hell , I have done everything I possibly can to try and save it and now I'm just exhausted and feel like I just couldn't give a damn
It all boils down to one simple thing , repeating !!!! My partner repeats himself constantly !!! Now this may seem petty but I mean to an extreme !!! Like tonight for example he asked me the same thing 10 times in less than half an hour. !! Thing is i have had years of this , the problem is now I tend to shut off when he doss this and a row breaks out because he thinks I'm ignoring him . And he gets a temper !!!! He says nasty things , calls me names , towers above me to frighten me , bearing in mind at this point I actually have t done anything wrong
The part that worries me is before I would of cared I'd be like come on honey please I'm not arguing etc etc , now I'm just like a statue , he shouting at me having a go , I'm like yup ok and walk away i feel void and drained of any emotion, it's causing us not to have sex
He comes back with the same old I'm sorry I won't do this again the. 24 hours later we are there again
He used to be fun filled cheeky chap , now he is moody miserable and negative and I feel like the real me is just fading because he is so difficult to leave. He causes scenes and issues if I threaten to go and if I try he hangs onto me with crocodile tears with the I won't do this anymore
We use dtk be great before he became this person , he certainly not the man I fell for , I don't know what to do
Like I said this may seem petty but imagine this day in day out !!