I had my 5th date yesterday, at her place. I thought it was obvious at the 4th date that she wanted to kiss, as she kept touching her lips. I wanted too, but was too scared. We're both very shy, in fact we are acting like we've no idea what's going on and never even mentioned the word "date", but its SO obvious we like each other. It's kind of funny but so cute ^^. We're both 21.
So yesterday we were watching movies while sitting on her bed. For the first half I had my arm around her a bit, slightly touching her. One thing that confuses me from time to time is that when I start touching her a bit she doesn't move at all most of the time; neither away nor closer. I always stop there and just keep this very slight touch. Or should I try touching more tightly if she doesn't move away?
After dinner, we went on watching movies, but she sat down farther away? (Maybe she wanted to sit more comfortably, since there was nothing to lean against)
Okay, so during the last 20 minutes I pretty much shifted all my attention to her, looking at her a lot.
She noticed and suddenly moved in and we were really close. I looked at her more often for longer intervals and she started to smile a lot, but still had her attention at the movie. I tried to make it obvious that I wanted to kiss and I think she also wanted to, as she was leaning against me like she rarely does and our faces were really close..
Still, even after the movie ended I kept looking at her (looking away a few times, so it wouldn't seem like staring) and was waiting for her to turn her face towards me but she didn't. She probably wanted to turn around, but was too shy; there were just a few very short eye-contacts.
After about 5 minutes after the movie ended I gave in due to my uncontrollable heart-beating. I didn't know whether I should say something and ended up with something like "hnnn" while exhaling loudly.
Then we both started to laugh. It was so obvious we both wanted to kiss.
Nothing more happened, but the next date is at my place again (2nd time) and I didn't even have to ask.
So (I forgot to mention it would be my very first kiss, hers too probably) I have no idea whether I should have "slided" around to be directly in front of her and kiss her, but I thought that would be a bit awkward?
Or should I have said/asked something (without ruining the mood)?
I'm quite shy and might not be able to just go for it all by myself, but she's even more so.
How can I get her to relax a bit and give her the courage to kiss?