"Visited" my BF mail and boy, was I surprised!

[MissSalma]

Ok, so we were together for 11 months, LDR.
Tonight he came to my house, checked his e-mail, left it open. He deleted his e-mails ever since I caught him messaging with a girl behind my back, but what he didn;t know is that now yahoo has a section, conversations, that keeps archive of chats on yahoo messenger.
He had messages from february, so I had a lot to read and here;s what I found
-he talks to a lot of girls and he invites them to his town
-he says he's single, that he's not with me anymore
-he calls me jealous and stressful (but I had my reasons)
-he talks really bad about me with his friends, and they joke about me and he laughs
-he told one girl that this year he slept with only 3 girls (but this year he was just with me..in theory)
-he told me he never spoke to his 7 years ex but he talked
-he talked to a lot of girls he told me he doesn;t know
-in a chat he tells a friend that he;s got to go to a date..
and so on..

In conclusion, he not only cheated me, but talked badly and disrespectful of me and lied to me a lot.

Tomorrow he said let's get a coffee before I leave.
I was thinking of picking the best pieces from the cahts, print them and hand them to him to read them on a train, but I'm not going to let him see it till he gets on a train.
And I feel I should slap him or something, I'm so angry!
How do you think I should do this?

[IndiReloaded]

Is he at your place? Just ask him to leave. I wouldn't even give him an explanation. Why let him know you found out? It will bother him that you broke up w/o any explanation and leave him wondering. Might be good for him and make him think twice about cheating on the next girl.

[MissSalma]

No, he's not at my place. He always called me jealous and paranoid, I just wanted for him to see that I know I had a reason.

[Vanessa]

Do you actually have the patience to wait until he gets on the train? I couldn't stand being in the same room with him after finding out all that stuff. Just tell him goodbye and good riddance straight away.

[rafterman]

Give him the flick. He's playing you like there's no tomorrow.

[Evo1114]

Just don't bother with the coffee. Why? Leave him. Don't answer his calls, don't do anything. Just don't show up. On a later date, while he is wondering what is going on, just forward him the emails/chat transcripts if you want. Although handing them to him right before he boards the train could be pretty slick. Just have to keep your poker face right up until that point. You already broke up with him, right? He obviously does not respect you one bit, just move on. If he calls you this and that to his friends, who cares. I guess I can see why you kept calling him over and over as you mentioned in a previous thread. Dude obviously should not be trusted.

[IndiReloaded]

No, he's not at my place. He always called me jealous and paranoid, I just wanted for him to see that I know I had a reason.

But why do you care what he thinks? He's a turd, flush, that is all. You don't explain anything to your daily dump, do you?

[Saya]

Your last thread that you made yesterday, you said that you broke up with him.
If you already broke up with him then, just move on... don't bother with him anymore.

[rafterman]

Ok, so we were together for 11 months, LDR.
Tonight he came to my house, checked his e-mail, left it open. He deleted his e-mails ever since I caught him messaging with a girl behind my back, but what he didn;t know is that now yahoo has a section, conversations, that keeps archive of chats on yahoo messenger.
He had messages from february, so I had a lot to read and here;s what I found
-he talks to a lot of girls and he invites them to his town
-he says he's single, that he's not with me anymore
-he calls me jealous and stressful (but I had my reasons)
-he talks really bad about me with his friends, and they joke about me and he laughs
-he told one girl that this year he slept with only 3 girls (but this year he was just with me..in theory)
-he told me he never spoke to his 7 years ex but he talked
-he talked to a lot of girls he told me he doesn;t know
-in a chat he tells a friend that he;s got to go to a date..
and so on..

In conclusion, he not only cheated me, but talked badly and disrespectful of me and lied to me a lot.

Tomorrow he said let's get a coffee before I leave.
I was thinking of picking the best pieces from the cahts, print them and hand them to him to read them on a train, but I'm not going to let him see it till he gets on a train.
And I feel I should slap him or something, I'm so angry!
How do you think I should do this?

Having given your OP some more thought, this is what I concluded.

Rafterman
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[maxmax]

Forget the coffee.

Just leave, and never look back.

[smackie9]

Just text him the convos and tell him he is a busted rat bastard.

[sadie_genie]

Do you want to post a picture of him here? The rest of us need to be warned.

[maxmax]

Do you want to post a picture of him here? The rest of us need to be warned.

Yeah. I want to draw a moustache on him and a large cock on his head.

Not really.

[surfhb]

Youre a bitch and he's an asshole....let it at that and move on

[kinks]

He's a complete idiot... At least make sure you're the one that ends it (with a good kick in his balls)