Ok so I met this guy online Last month and we went to watch a movie. We text each other every now and then and we usually start the convo by asking each what we're doing. Sometimes he would initiate the conversation first and and ask me what i am doing or what I did this week and when I tell him, and thand sometimes there's no response until I change the subject or he delays his response. He responds more on online chat like Aim and Facebook chat but when I give him my response when he initiates the question, there's no response sometimes. He called me a slow responder couple times and I think he is a slow responder because he doesn't keep the conversation going like the other guys I have talked to.
I went out with this guy about 4 months ago and we talked a lot online and through the phone, but with him it's different. I noticed that I needed to keep the conversation going by asking him questions and then he will respond and everything goes pretty well and then the conversation dies again. I do not always want to initiate the conversation and ask him question because I know its really annoying. So I stop responding and then he says I am a slow responder when I don't say anything.... but he can't even keep the convo going.
Well we met each other 3 times already. We went to the movies twice and clubbing once with his friend.
I feel that it's easier for me to talk to his friend then talking to him. When he or me ask him questions, the conversation can get very long and we can just keep talking like we known each other for years. I don't know his friend very well either but we did go to the same school haha. I think I told his friend more stuff about me then with him. Btw his friend said that he wanted to hang out with me as well... =|
It is ok when we talk in person and there is a two-way conversation going but then I think I talk more then him and I don't wanna talk over him and talk too much.
Anyways he wants to go out with me again this saturday. I don't mind at all.
Do you think he is shy and nervous? Because when we went clubbing he didn't dance with me but his friend did. His friend is also shy too. He seemed a bit nervous at the club o.0
He's a very sweet guy and he did not want to go clubbing if I didn't go. Maybe because he was scared of talking to girls and asking them to dance with them. he didn't even ask for my number when we spoke online, but he gave me his. I gave him mines when I noticed that he didn't ask for my number and I needed to contact him about the date. It's like we plan to see a movie, I have to initiate the yes and he will go lke for clubbing. If I saic maybe, he says maybe. But this time he initiated that we hang out on saturday.
BTw, I hardly spoke to him this past 2 weeks because I am in LA and I don't have wifi to connect to the internet on my itouch to access the text app. But I did speak to him a few times on Facebook and we commented on the FB status.