Girls please help

[john5454]

So my girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago after 15 months. She said she has commitment issues and needs to work things out in her head. She loves me a ton and does not have any interest in talking to or meeting anyone new. So I gave her her space and hardly talked to her, a few texts here and there. I tried not to bring up our relationship. I did a few times but that was a few days after. So she went to flordia on a trip with her girlfriends 5 days ago and we met for a drink before she left. It was like old times. She seemed so happy with being with me and her old self. We made out in her car afterwards (which left me really confused)

Then she started to text me she misses me and now wants to hang out tonight to watch a movie/drink some wine. She said she bought me a present dow there too.... We used to do that frequently when we were together.

I do not know what I should do.... I do not want to get hurt more. I love her and want to see her but i do not know whats in her mind. Any advise for me?

Thanks so much

john

[Kyrina]

This is difficult not talking she thinks you dont care, talking she feels your pushing her, You cant let her run hot then cold for you, you need to remember your life and you cant go forward with or without her until she makes a decision.
We all have commitment issues and i know this may seem harsh but i would say i want you and want to be with you, ive done as you ask and given you time but i cant live with this confusion i need to know if you want me or not.Be prepared for the not, but which is better for you to be confused like this or to get an answer no matter which it maybe.I also have this decision to make but the amount of time its taking to know what we both want is leading to a stalemate situation.
Good luck i hope you get your girl and dreams realised x