helppp :(

[sloneyy]

basically she hada thing bout goin out and getting drunk but before i got with her she alwasy had flings and led to other stuff with lads due to that she was drunk and when she goes out and gets drunk now i really dont no what to think then she wil say to me she wants to spend a certain day woth me but then she will change her mind and go out and hava drink and not speak to me or text me or anything for like 2 3 days and i just stay in thinkin about her all the time and my head just goes in every direction i realy dont no what to think and when she goes out she says that she doesn speak to any lads and then when i seen her with a lad she says hes a mate which is abit weird see as tho she sed she doesnt speak to any one like that and then says she aint gna go to a certain place then ill ask her wer she goin 2nyt and she turns round and says she doesnt no but she goes to the place she sed she wernt gna go and just little lies all the time can some one give me a low down on what to do plz

[HeartIsAching]

Now I'm weeping for the English educational system.

[sloneyy]

n whats that suppose to mean !

[HeartIsAching]

It means your spelling is atrocious (look it up) and your punctuation is non-existent.

[MaidenMinx]

I agree. Please edit that to include punctuation, capitals in appropriate places and proper spelling. It's all but impossible to read.

[sloneyy]

basically she hada thing bout goin out and getting drunk. But before i got with her she alwasy had flings with lads when she was drunk and it led to other stuff with lads due to that she was drunk.

When she goes out and gets drunk i really dont no what to think. Then she wil say to me she wants to spend a certain day with me but then she will change her mind and go out and hava drink and not speak to me or text me or anything.
i just stay in thinkin about her all the time and my head just goes in every direction i realy dont no what to think.
When she goes out she says that she doesn speak to any lads and then when i seen her with a lad she says hes a mate which is abit weird see as tho she sed she doesnt speak to any one like that.
Then says she aint gna go to a certain place then ill ask her were she goin 2night and she turns round and says she doesnt no but she goes to the place she sed she wernt gna go
And the little lies always get to me cause in my eyes they just goin to escalate to bigger ones .

that better for you

[HeartIsAching]

Marginally.

[sloneyy]

welll how about stop goin on about my punctuality and jsut help my problem if not stop commenting !

[HeartIsAching]

I think she's an attention hound, and is out having fun. You're probably better off without her.

[sloneyy]

well ive bin thinkin that but i dont no if i can let her go. she doesnt go out fora a while then when she does she just totally blanks me off .

[HeartIsAching]

Then prepare to be unhappy. Sorry I don't have better news for you.

[sloneyy]

thanks aniway

[MaidenMinx]

She sounds like bad news dude. She has no respect for you and if she isn't cheating she is at least heavily flirting with other guys.

That's just my assumption.

[Wakeup]

Sorry she's confusing you but she sounds like an alcoholic who doesn't think about anyone but herself. Why don't you talk to her about things and if they don't improve then give it up and look for someone who doesn't drink like a fish and lie to you?

[sloneyy]

well i always get the feeling that she is cheating on me but thats probs because ive had it done to me in the past. But we argue over really pathetic things what dont even need an arguement over . But when we have our good days i reali cudnt ask for anythin betta. When we first got togetha she always wanted to have sex and now im lucky get it once a month and thats what gets me thinkin that she getting it somehwere else :'(