Should I tell her?

[LaMb ChOp]

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[Rawr]

I was in a similar situation once, I know you're VERY upset right now. Just take a deep breath and move on. It will ruin not only his relationship, but yours too. And he blocked you? Good riddance. Now you won't be able to see what's up, it will only hurt you. My suggestion is to let it go, it's hard I know, but let it go, and please forgive yourself, but promise to do better next time.

[qwertz]

You sound bitter. You also have no self control or morals. Have you ever heard of the word "no" ?. Just cut him out of your life, don't contact him or respond to him if he ever gets in touch and don't tell his gf. It is none of your business.

[Wakeup]

No... Mind your own bloody business, not his girlfriend's. You deserve a swift kick in the ass though. Fk off and leave them alone and quit blaming him for doing everything bad when you were the one who was enabling him to cheat.

please forgive yourself, but promise to do better next time.

Indeed! And, for gawd sakes please learn from this so that you're not fooled in the future by the bullshit coming out of a married mans mouth. (or that of a man otherwise already involved.

*shakes head*

*I'll add that if you wanted to tell on him and were sincere in wanting to protect his girlfriend then you would have told on him when he started all this bullshit with you. Because you didn't tell her then it's obvious that you are suffering from the ill effect of sour grapes and that's your only motive so skip the shoddy.

[oldskool83]

if you wanna **** you your life, do so. stay out of others. your deal is with him and only him. not him and anyone else. your asking for dramma and gossip and honestly you sound ike a dramma queen in the making

[HeartIsAching]

Before christmas, when I was still married, I cheated on my hubby with a guy I once worked with. We kissed and tried to have sex but we were outdoors and it was awkward. The next day I told my hubby what had happened, he forgave me but for a couple of months after that me and the guy would flirt alot and he often invited me to his for sex. We never actually slept with eachother at that point, but because of my desire to I ended up leaving my hubby as I realised I didn't love him else I never would have messed around with the other guy.

The other guy is in a long term relationship but said that he rarely gets to sleep with his girlfriend, so we agreed to be **** buddies but we never did anything for ages, just sex texting and arranged to meet then he would bottle it, until about two months ago when I did sleep with him. He was very nervous, blaming it on being so tired, but I think deep down he knew what he was doing was wrong. He said all along how apprehensive he was and made it clear he likes his relationship and only ever wanted sex from me. Not once have I ever instigated any of what we did, it was always him pushing me for naughty pics etc, always him suggesting we meet but then bottling it. He was coming on to me all night before christmas from the minute he arrived in the pub, I had no idea he liked me in that way and he knew I was married and I knew he had a long term girlfriend.

Recently he text to ask for some naughty pics of me, and I resisted. He was going on and on, then asked if I wanted to sleep with him in the morning. He even suggested that he would leave his girlfriends house early that morning (he must have been staying at hers that night) and go to his to meet me first thing, and said he needed to know then otherwise he 'would go to work straight from hers'. I said yes then he said about half an hour later that he had no condoms so we would have to organise it for another time.

Without explanation, within about a day of him texting me asking if I still wanted to hook up sometime with him, he deleted me from facebook. A week later I text him asking why and he denied doing it. So I sent him a friend request, he accepted but anyway long story short he then immediately blocked me from seeing his profile and that of his girlfriend. I text him saying I feel like telling his girlfriend what we did and he got quite nasty about it.

The thing is, I know I am completely in the wrong here too and I am not proud of myself whatsoever, but doesn't she deserve to know that he cheated?

No. Grow up - you're simply looking for retribution in retaliation for hurting your feelings. Be honest with yourself. It's none of your business.

[jb1111983]

'If he's not gonna be mine, he's not gonna be hers either!' is that on your mind? lol

I seriously think you both deserve each other. You both like screwing up relationships for sex, don't ya?