BF deleted me off Facebook

[Illusional]

why don't you people get real lives?? stop living in the internet world.


raverboy

[kinks]

i don't know how to tell him without making it sound as if i suspect him of something

[sweetest]

i don't know how to tell him without making it sound as if i suspect him of something

If i were you i'd make damn sure he knows that I suspect he's up to something, and i'd do it asap.

[kinks]

If i were you i'd make damn sure he knows that I suspect he's up to something, and i'd do it asap.

the thing is... i sort of made out i was cool with it because i didn't wanna come across as immature or something when he deleted me and was like 'fb is no big deal'

[Wakeup]

the thing is... i sort of made out i was cool with it because i didn't wanna come across as immature or something when he deleted me and was like 'fb is no big deal'

Listen: You will not be the first woman on earth who changed her mind. Just tell him you are feeling left out by not being able to access his page and you want back on. If he gives you a hard time and doesn't want to alieve your angst about it all then he's just told you he doesn't much care about your happiness and you need to make choice of either putting up with being left out and learn to be happy about it or, leave him and find someone who doesn't need to hide his profile from his girlfriend. If facebook is no big deal (as he's tried to tell you) then he'll delete his too or re-friend you. You might wnat to tell him that calmly and matter of factly.

[Kiechi]

You guys must be like, what? 15 - 17?

[kinks]

You guys must be like, what? 15 - 17?

i'm 21. he's 32

[kinks]

Listen: You will not be the first woman on earth who changed her mind. Just tell him you are feeling left out by not being able to access his page and you want back on. If he gives you a hard time and doesn't want to alieve your angst about it all then he's just told you he doesn't much care about your happiness and you need to make choice of either putting up with being left out and learn to be happy about it or, leave him and find someone who doesn't need to hide his profile from his girlfriend. If facebook is no big deal (as he's tried to tell you) then he'll delete his too or re-friend you. You might wnat to tell him that calmly and matter of factly.

yeah thing is i won't see him till next weekend, cos our shifts at work don't match... and i have exams until tues... so the only communication we'll have till next weekend is bbm really :/

[IndiReloaded]

This one is a little different then your normal he/she deleted me threads.

No its not. Anyone who allows something like FB to affect their lives anymore than a Friday DVD rental deserves to be laughed at.

[Wakeup]

Your opinionated opinion and you're welcome to it however I'll agree to disagree. Facebook is the new hook up site for those who like to hook up and cheat. It's just facebook for those that don't.

[IndiReloaded]

Then they get exactly what they deserve, its what I said. LOL.

[Wakeup]

LOL.. No it isn't

[IndiReloaded]

Unfortunately, WakeUp, the fact the poster is here with this exact problem proves I am correct.

[Ric]

No its not. Anyone who allows something like FB to affect their lives anymore than a Friday DVD rental deserves to be laughed at.

I disagree,
Your partner not wanting to get a FB is fine. Your partner not caring to add a relationship status on FB is no big deal either.
Your partner removing your friendship with you or removing your relationship needs a good excuse or otherwise it isn't fine.
There's a difference between not wanting something to start with or suddenly stop wanting it.

Yes, FB in itself is not at all important. But, letting all your friends know that someone isn't important enough to keep on your friends list is just wrong.

[Wakeup]

yeah thing is i won't see him till next weekend, cos our shifts at work don't match... and i have exams until tues... so the only communication we'll have till next weekend is bbm really :/

Try to forget about it until you see him face to face and you can gauge his reaction, voice reflection and he your's. This may not be serious to some people but it's definately serious to you or you wouldn't have posted so try to get some resolution to this when your together and don't settle for being left out. If nothing else it's unfair and a double standard that he's taking advantage of.

Good luck.