Its impossible to tell if shes hanging with this guy as a rebound and smoking as a way to get back at me and make me jealous, or she's doing it for a totally different reason.
How about it has nothing to do with you and she's just moving on? Smoking dope IMO is no worse than drinking alcohol and for some inexplainable reason, the government allows one but bans another. It's well known and documented that alcohol destroys lives and breaks up marriages and families and ruins health yet they still allow it's legality?
How about you try to accept that this relationship is over and go to school and get your degree while you pursue other woman who are more compatible to you. She's changing (and there is no indication that she's self destructing) and you are no longer suitable for one another. Least that's how I see things from this and your other post.
I'm with Simmo: What she does and with whom is none of your business now.
im back and forth on getting back with her if the chance ever presented itself. it obviously wouldnt be soon because were both going off to college, but who knows what the future holds.
yea, well why don't you just relax and see what the future holds instead of trying to control the present?
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion